You are married for many years, and you trust her, all seems to be in order. She has a flight to catch and in the hurry she forgets to close her messenger on the family computer, and then you read this:

SHE: trust was there from the beginning, I still felt that there is a present from God ... and a way should be found for us ...
HE:if we both believe it is important for us,do not run away ....
SHE:I can understand that A... is part of your life... you know also I have a "partner" that is part of my life ... But our relationship is ONLY our relationship.And my relationship with you, is with YOU ... not with A ... that doesn't mean I cannot be his friend, but what is between us should be between you and me... not you,me and A....
I like A... a lot,but for you it is different feelings,deeper feelings IT IS LOVE !! I have the largest heart in the world, and I know if you love someone, really LOVE, you accept him as he is ... and find ways to make it work ...